You will desire to control your husband but he will rule over you.
Wives submit to your husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as also Christ is the head of the Church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the Church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the Church and gave Himself for it, that He might sanctify and cleanse it ..... So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. --Ephesians 5:22-23
Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
P.S. I shared this devotion to Labsie and he seemed receptive to it :) I also read an article on how a husband should love his wife in GotQuestions.org --> love her as Christ loved His Church, i.e. HE gave up His life for it. Labsie seemed a bit o.O ~ probably not ready to give up his life for me, haha!